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打人的人就是不對

這是在網路上看到的文章,是個不錯的經驗,
也能反身的想想,自已可能都是雙方的家長,
如果是自已的孩子,大人應該用什麼態度面對,
才能教導小孩正確的觀念??
事件是一時,心態才是影響良遠
我們在教自已的小孩忍的同時,是否也教導他/她正確的做人處事?
如果自已是搶人後來被打的那一方,當小孩來告狀時,是不是能心平氣和的了解原委後,予於正確的引導……

不過我想到的是,如果當你的小孩是被搶又被打時?我們又該如何解?
小孩真的是大人世界的縮影,
他們就是這些大人教出來的,
這都在考驗你我的智慧




「小外甥在學校闖禍了!」接到爸爸的電話。                                 

                                                                          

「什麼事啊?!」我問。                                                   

                                                                          

「聽說把小朋友打到流鼻血啦!」                                           

                                                                          

爸爸有些緊張,他要我立即前往學校了解情況並處理。                         

                                                                          

我一直很疼小外甥,他個性很憨厚,為何會出手打人呢?我實在搞不懂!         

                                                                          

於是立即放下手邊工作,逕往學校去……                                       

                                                                          

進導師辦公室時,映入眼簾的是:                                            

                                                                          

我的大姊一直彎腰卑恭的向對方家長道歉…                                    

                                                                          

但是對方家長似乎完全不領情,脾氣火得像什麼似的…                           

                                                                          

對方家長還一直說要找警察來,一定要把小外甥關起來…!!!                  

                                                                          

看看站在一旁的小外甥,他的臉色鐵青,一肚子火氣,                          

                                                                          

我知道他從小的脾氣就是拗,但是從來不和人惡搞的!                         

                                                                          

他今天動手打人,我相信一定有他的原因…                                     

                                                                          

                                                                          

                                                                          

我一進去導師室,什麼話都懶得說,直接抱起了小外甥,說:                   

                                                                          

『不要怕!舅舅來了!你什麼話都可以說!』                                 

                                                                          

這時小外甥終於忍不住哭了起來…                                            

                                                                          

『打人就不對了!說什麼說!還有臉哭?!』對方家長劈頭就這樣堵我!         

                                                                          

我火氣也來了,決定嚇對方一下,開口就操台語開罵:                         

                                                                          

『幹!你是三小!沒看見恁倍在教厝裡的小孩講實話喔?!』                   

                                                                          

『你不滿的話,去傳人過來!』                                             

                                                                          

『恁倍最看不起不懂事理就說:打人就不對ㄟ人!』                           

                                                                           

對方先是愣住了!頓時聲音變得一片寧靜…                                    

                                                                          

(看來,社會上多數還真的欺負善良的人…!)                                

                                                                           

打破沉寂,直接問老師發生事情的原委!                                     

                                                                          

沒想到老師也說不出所以然(這時候我的火氣真的來了),                     

                                                                           

於是我讓小外甥告訴大家為何他要打人!                                     

                                                                          

同時我要求被打的小朋友一起站在老師面前,要他們當面對質!                 

                                                                           

                                                                          

                                                                          

『美術課,我在做我的勞作啊!』                                           

                                                                           

『他很沒禮貌,過來借我的東西都不說一下!』                               

                                                                          

『但是我不想要借他啊!』                                                 

                                                                          

『他每次向人家借東西都不還,也不會珍惜…!』                              

                                                                          

『今天他拿了我的萬能糊就跑!我就衝過去要拿回來!』                       

                                                                          

『但是他都不還我,我也搶不回來!』                                       

                                                                          

『他突然把我的萬能糊往窗外丟,別的同學幫我撿起來!』                      

                                                                          

『他還用很難聽的話一直罵我…』                                            

                                                                          

『我叫他不要再亂罵,他就對我比中指,還向我吐口水…』指著自己的鞋子。       

                                                                          

『所以我生氣就一拳打過去…』                                              

                                                                          

『他…流鼻血了…』                                                          

                                                                          

小外甥低著頭,很後悔的表情。                                              

                                                                           

                            

當小外甥敘述過程的同時,我一直盯著這個小朋友和家長,                     

                                                                          

並不斷確認對方的反應,其實我完全相信小外甥不會亂說…                      

                                                                           

                                                                          

                                                                          

我回頭問挨打的小朋友:『 那時候 老師呢?!』                             

                                                                           

「上廁所…」他小聲的說。                                                  

                                                                          

『他講的有沒有不對的呢…?!』我接著問。                                  

                                                                          

「我有跟他借啊!」他反駁。                                               

                                                                          

『借個萬能糊也沒什麼啊…!』對方家長從旁幫腔。                             

                                                                          

『但是他有答應要借你嗎?!』我不讓他閃躲,他回答不上來…。                

                                                                          

『小氣!借我們不就好了嗎…?!』對方家長這時理直氣壯的說。                

                                                                          

我狠狠的瞪了對方家長一眼,這下真的是秀才遇到兵了…                        

                                                                          

知道不來些突然的手腕可能沒完沒了,立即轉頭告訴老師:                     

                                                                           

「既然家長這麼喜歡請警察來,                                             

                                                                          

還是請你撥電話請東門派出所的員警先生來一趟好了!」                        

                                                                          

這句話一出來,全部的人都愣住了!(包括對方家長)                         

                                                                          

 

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